- last Friday a friend asked me where my colleague is getting his life's energy from. She received an answer when she saw him surrounded by his five kids and wife. Last year at the same occasion I was watching his pregnant wife surrounded by her four children. They were like little angels guarding their pregnant mother. It is hard to accept that I will never be a Mama but eventually I will have to get over this.
- I dreamed about the dolphins two days ago. I hope this dream has a good meaning.
- yesterday I saw the Long-eared Owl flying over our garden again. Hopefully we will have young owls in the neighborhood in spring. I will check this in May when youngsters squeak each night, pleading for food.
- it is interesting to read old newspapers. Today I will check some articles about the International Women's Day in 1911 and Slovenia's first independence in 1918 (women helped a lot that this happened).
So, enjoy "your" day if you are a woman!
1 comment:
Sicer imam rada praznične dni, celo precej blesave ala valentinovo, hehe, ampak osmi marec v današnjem času se mi zdi pa nepotreben. Nepotreben zato, ker je izrojen. In ker ne naslavlja vseh ljudi na enak način in ker segregira družbo.
Tudi sama nimam in ne bom imela otrok; ker sem se sama tako odločila. Večina ljudi tega ne sprejme oz. se delajo, da so sprejeli, v resnici pa še vedno plozajo dalje svoje o lepotah materinstva in vnučkih in blablabla. Nismo vsi ljudje enaki v svojih pričakovanjih od življenja; pač, tako je.
Drugo je, kadar otrok ne moreš imeti. Ti ne znam reči nič spodbudnega in te ne preusmerjam drugam, ker bi bil to samo pesek v oči ali glavo pod blazino. S to bolečino boš živela; kako grenka bo, pa je odvisno od tebe. Po mojih izkušnjah pomaga bližina ljudi, ki delijo isto bolečino; takrat človek lažje najde pot ven.
Sočutje drugih in preusmerjanje pozornosti na druga, kao prav tako lepa področja, ne deluje. Life is a bitch in kdor ni v življenju okusil nič zaresno tragičnega (smrt bližnjega, ločitev ipd.), tega pač ne more razumeti. Flancanje o dobrem pomaga šele potem, ko sprejmeš ta temnejšo plat življenja, ki te je esencialno udarla po prstih.
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